Relationship tarot spread (Support, Spark and Sex)

Last Updated: April 10, 2022

This supportive 7 card relationship tarot spread can offer you solutions for communication, key reminders of your relationship and sexy ideas for spicing things up. Through tarot, we can take a moment to be present in our relationship. 

It gives us a focus that isn’t a phone screen or a Netflix binge, and it aids us in our connection to our spiritual growth as well as our familial growth. This is a tarot spread to know what your partner is feeling or thinking about often, and gives you a tool to articulate what you may struggle to chat about normally. 

Whilst tarot sometimes has structured meanings, follow your intuition and take it as an opportunity to connect to each other with no barriers. This seven card tarot spread also contains a prompt for bringing in some spice to your sexual aspect of the relationship, and if that’s not something you don’t want to focus on then simply leave those aspects out. 

With the sex life tarot spread aspects, I recommend the Minor Arcana. Pentacles indicates taking things slower with tangible tools, Cups indicates working on the Romantic aspects such as flirting/dating/roleplay, Swords indicates emotional connection more through trust and communication (Shibari, Bondage etc – look into this safely please) and Wands indicates trying new positions, being more active with positions, and confidence building through self-empowerment and auto-eroticism. 

If you’d like further guidance on this specific type of tarot reading, I’d be happy to perform it with you using some of my beautiful decks that will bring clarity and additional support to you both.

Spread position & questions to ask

To begin, shuffle your tarot deck and draw a card for each position as shown in the below layout.

Finally, take some time to reflect on the questions that each card position represents and what message the tarot cards in that position might be trying to tell you. If you’re just starting to learn tarot, or if you’re still getting to know your deck, you may find my in-depth articles on the meanings of every tarot card helpful.

  1. What you need right now
  2. what they need right now
  3. How to recognise this need from each other
  4. Your strength as a team
  5. A card to describe what the relationship will be like in the near future
  6. Foreplay idea
  7. The energy that will spice up the sexual aspects of the relationship

Written by Lizzie B

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