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Soulmate or Twin Flame Tarot Spread

Last Updated: April 10, 2022

There are hot discussions right now about Soulmates and Twin Flames.

I’ve created this 6-card tarot spread to help you with some clarity and to get answers regarding how you feel, and how to understand your situation more. If you’re still unsure, book a private soulmate tarot reading with me so we can look at this together. This twin flame tarot reading will help you articulate these answers. In my opinion, they are two very different aspects to understand.

A soulmate is someone who compliments you for this life, who encourages aspects of yourself to be better and want to be better. They can be grounding and balancing, to your fiery and energetic. They can offer heart and emotional depth where your logic and scientific-brain come in. 

There can be multiple soulmates as your soul goes through different journeys through life, such as childhood, spiritually, romantically. They aren’t always romantic, but it is magnetic, and you feel a sense of knowing them for a very long time.

A twin flame is someone who is an extension of you, and that you are made from the same stuff cosmically. You’ll both be fiery and energetic, you’ll both have the big hearts and emotional depth. It can be very intense, deeply bonding, and this is where it could get dangerous. 

If you both struggle with shadow aspects, you may have a tendency to bring out the worst in each other. If you have a tendency to overindulge or self-sabotage, your twin flame is likely to be an enabler here because they too are going or have gone through the same process. If you’re lucky enough to have met your twin flame, then strong boundaries will help keep you both nurtured.

Whether you are soulmates or twin flames, you should always keep each other safe and feel respected. Consent should be taken into account and please be wary of any red flags. If you’re not feeling nourished by this relationship, and find it draining, it could be best for you to take a break to work on this. 

What’s important is that you are happy, healthy and safe.

Soulmate or Twin Flame spread layout & questions to ask

To begin, shuffle your tarot deck and draw a card for each position as shown in the below layout.

Finally, take some time to reflect on the questions that each card position represents and what message the tarot cards in that position might be trying to tell you. If you’re just starting to learn tarot, or if you’re still getting to know your deck, you may find my in-depth articles on the meanings of every tarot card helpful.

soulmate or twin flame tarot spread
  1. Soul Split: How does this person indicate they’re an extension of me? What traits do they have that show we are from the same flame?
  2. Soul Compliment: How does this person amplify me or show me how to be better? What aspects of them encourage me to live happier?
  3. What’s the lesson: What haven’t I learnt so far? What do I need to understand with this person?
  4. What’s the blessing: What have I missed so far whilst focusing on the negatives or the worry or the doubt? Show me the positives.
  5. What’s the warning: What can I learn that’ll help me maintain this connection healthily? How can I protect myself?
  6. What’s heartwarming: What do I need to know for the future? What positives will they bring to my life moving forward?

Written by Lizzie B

I love curating divination experiences for those invested in spiritual growth with secular honest vibes. I am that witch you come to for these honest, interesting and beneficial divination experiences!

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